The Invisible Prision: How society punishes Survivors

⚠️Must read: This piece wasn't written to sensationalize or create content from others' pain. Rather, it emerged from a concern about how our society treats survivors (of sexual assault) after their initial trauma. While I typically avoid such sensitive subjects, this discussion feels necessary to create awareness and inspire change. My intention is solely to contribute to a more understanding and supportive community where survivors can truly heal.

We talk a lot about punishing criminals, but here's something we rarely think about: while the perpetrator might serve a few years in prison or any other punishment according to law. But the survivors often serve a life sentence imposed by society.

Think about it. When personal details leak from police reports or spread through social media, what happens? (Section 228A of the Indian Penal Code prohibits the disclosure of a rape survivor's identity, making it a crime punishable by up to two years in prison and shall also be liable to fine)

The survivor, who's already been through trauma, faces a second wave of violation. Their private pain becomes public gossip. Friends start acting differently. Family members, despite good intentions, become overprotective or judgmental. Colleagues whisper. Normal life slips away.

I want you to imagine yourself in their position for a moment. You gather the courage to report a crime, hoping for justice. Instead, you find yourself trapped. Your parents, who once trusted you to live your life, now monitor your every move. Relatives who used to treat you normally now look at you with pity or blame. Your workplace, once a space of professional growth, becomes uncomfortable. Even a simple trip to the grocery store feels like walking through a minefield of stares and whispers.

The cruel irony? You did nothing wrong. Yet society makes you feel like you did.

This has real consequences. When survivors see how others are treated, they stay silent. Crimes go unreported. Perpetrators walk free. The cycle continues.

What's the solution? It starts with us:

• Stop treating survivors differently - they're still the same people
• Keep their private information private - it's not your story to share
• Maintain normal professional and social relationships
• Respect their right to live without constant reminders

Here's the truth: justice isn't just about punishing criminals. It's also about protecting those who've been hurt and letting them heal. When we fail to do this, we're not just failing survivors - we're failing as a society.

Remember, tomorrow it could be someone you know. Or someone you love. Or even you. Wouldn't you want the right to heal in peace?

It's time we changed the narrative. Let survivors reclaim their lives. Let them be known for who they are, not for what happened to them. That's not just their right - it's our responsibility.